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What’s wrong with ‘Jesus-my-boyfriend’ songs?
Jonathan Holt
April 14th, 2009

One of the easiest targets in the church music scene is surely the ‘Jesus-my-boyfriend’ songs.

It seems so straight forward to make fun of inane lyrics and an indeterminate object of affection.

A good example of this kind of critique comes from an interview in Leadership magazine with Kristyn and Keith Getty. (Getty wrote ‘In Christ alone’ along with other church songs).

Keith says: “If I’ve got non-Christian friends coming to church, I’d far rather give them four verses of comparatively heavy theology with some theological words which explains the gospel, than give them twenty repeated words that could be said about your per horse or your girlfriend.” (Leadership, Winter 2009, page 24)

The trouble I have with this position, is that many of us take up this argument up without thinking through the consequences. We have set up a false comparison between songs that express devotion (Jesus-my-boyfriend style) and songs that are true and therefore safe (a new doctrine for each verse, or the entire life of Jesus in one song).

A quick survey of the Psalms reveals that the LORD God is mentioned by name in all of them, which surely delivers a knock-out blow to the songs with an indeterminate object of affection.

Yet, the expressions of emotions, and even repetitive phrases in the Psalms suggest that clear theology is not the sole aim of approaching God in song.

In fairness to Keith Getty, he explains in the same article, his own understanding of the job of a song, “…it has to teach the truth of God in a way that is emotionally engaging and poetic.”

I just hope we aren’t making the mistake of loading each song with the full responsibility of encompassing all that we want to say to God and about God, when we are gathered as God’s people.

Wouldn’t it be great if our range of songs included the kind of emotional and theological expanse we see in the book of Psalms?

Indeed, maybe where we have gone wrong is to give up on singing the Psalms.

A friend of mine once pointed out how this, once rich, Anglican tradition, of sharing a Psalm in our gathering, had almost vanished for want of easy and adaptable tunes.

Recently, I tried to put a Psalm from the NIV to a tune that would not sound out of place in a contemporary church, yet be easy enough to pick up and sing along to. Maybe this effort will be rewarded with people who judge songs from the theological and emotional content that we might learn from in God’s word.

Jonathan Holt is a church planter and Anglican minister in Canberra. He will be speaking at the Twist Away Conference in June this year.

Michael Jensen    1 year, 3 months ago
I remember thinking that a song entitled 'Jesus, lover of my soul' was about the worst example of modern Jesus/boyfriend singing - only to discover that Charles Wesley had written a hymn with the same title! In fact, the application of erotic/romantic language to one's relationship with God has a venerable history. Think of the church as Christ's bride. And, I think you were going to mention some of the Psalms that sing of an individual's relationship with God in quite intimate terms. Psalm 63 is an interesting example...

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Dane Courtney    1 year, 3 months ago
Recently, I tried to put a Psalm from the NIV to a tune that would not sound out of place in a contemporary church, yet be easy enough to pick up and sing along to.

Hi Jonathan, isn't that the sort of thing Psalm Praise tried to do a generation ago?

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Ross Cobb    1 year, 3 months ago
Worried about Wesley's 'Jesu, lover of my soul'? Then cop a load of this- one of my faves from the same crazy guy:

O love divine, how sweet thou art!
When shall I find my willing heart
All taken up by thee?
I thirst, I faint, I die to prove
The greatness of redeeming love,
The love of Christ to me.

Stronger His love than death or hell;
Its reaches are unsearchable;
The first born sons of light
Desire in vain its depths to see;
They cannot reach the mystery
The length, and breadth, and height.

God only knows the love of God;
O that it now were shed abroad
In this poor stony heart!
For love I sigh, for love I pine;
This only portion, Lord, be mine,
Be mine this better part.

O that I could forever sit
With Mary at the Master’s feet;
Be this my happy choice;
My only care, delight, and bliss,
My joy, my heaven on earth, be this
To hear the Bridegroom’s voice.

O that, with humbled Peter, I
Could weep, believe, and thrice reply,
My faithfulness to prove.
Thou know’st, (for all to Thee is known,
Thou know’st, O Lord, and Thou alone,
Thou know’st that Thee I love.

O that I could, with favored John,
Recline my weary head upon
The dear Redeemer’s breast!
From care, and sin, and sorrow free,
Give me, O Lord, to find in Thee
My everlasting rest.

Thy only love do I require,
Nothing on earth beneath desire,
Nothing in heaven above;
Let earth, and heaven, and all things go,
Give me Thy only love to know,
Give me only Thy love.

Put that in your pipe and smoke it!

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Shane Rogerson    1 year, 3 months ago
thanks Jonathan.what a wonderfully refreshing article
please come back to Sydney!!
more intellectually serious, evangelically faithful, experimental and affectionate songs please!

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Neil M. Cameron    1 year, 3 months ago
One major difference between JIMBF songs and good Christian worship songs is that the JIMBF focus on the individual ("I love you, I want you" etc) while good Christian worship songs focus on a group ("We worship you Jesus"). In corporate worship it is far more appropriate to use songs that refer to "we" rather than "I".

Another major difference is that JIMBF songs sometimes don't mention God or Jesus by name. They are not always explicitly Christian, which means that the lyrics (eg "I love you, I need you") could quite easily be directed towards a person rather than upon God.

A third major difference is that JIMBF are not just light on theology, they often focus on the feelings of the individual towards God/Jesus rather than the reason for such feelings. EG, a JIMBF song might say "I love you God, I need you always, you make me feel good", while a good Christian song would say "I love you Lord for you have rescued me from death through Christ, I thank you God for making me and placing me here on earth" - there is a reason which follows a declaration of love or devotion. BTW, that is the big thing about the Psalms - they are full of expressions of love and devotion BECAUSE of something God has done.

Finally, watch this Youtube video of Olivia Newton John and tell me whether you can see where Darlene Zschech gets her onstage influence from.

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David Ball    1 year, 3 months ago
Quite right, Neil, and there could be songs in each category that are both entitled "Jesus, lover of my soul" - it all depends on the rest of the lyrics, not just the title.

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Steve Kryger    1 year, 3 months ago
I'm keen to hear of any good (or as Shane puts it "intellectually serious, evangelically faithful, experimental and affectionate") songs that churches are singing, that other churches might not have heard of or be using in their services.

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Steve Kryger    1 year, 3 months ago
Here's one of my favourites (I'm sure some readers won't like it, but I and others at church have found it helpful in worshiping Jesus in song):

Beholding Your beauty
Is all that I long for
To worship You Jesus
Is my sole desire
For this very heart
You have shaped for be your pleasure
Purposed to lift Your Name higher

Here in surrender
In pure adoration
I enter Your courts
With an offering of praise
I am Your servant
Come to bring You glory
As is fit for the work of Your hands

Now unto the Lamb
Who sits on the throne
Be glory and honor and praise
All of creation resounds with the song
Worship and praise Him
The Lord of lords

Spirit now living
And dwelling within me
Keep my eyes fixed
Ever on Jesus' face
Let not the things of this world
Ever sway me
I'll run 'til I finish the race

Now unto the Lamb
Who sits on the throne
Be glory and honor and praise
All of eternity echoes the song
Worship and praise Him
The Lord of lords

Holy Lord
You are holy
Jesus Christ
Is the Lord

Now unto the Lamb
Who sits on the throne
Be glory and honour and praise
Call all the sinners to join in the song
Worship and praise Him
The Lord of lords

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David McKay    1 year, 3 months ago
I'm progressively going through J S Bach's church cantatas. We have about 200 extant, and it is thought he probably wrote about another 150 which are now lost.

Bach's cantatas express deep emotion for Jesus, but are also full of theology.

There is a place for expressing our love for Jesus, who is not our boyfriend, but our Bridegroom.

But we also need to sing songs that address the trinitarian nature of our faith, and do not leave out the other two members of the Holy Trinity.

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Alexander Walter Zunica    1 year, 3 months ago
Hi folks,

I think we can sometimes be a little too harsh on the so-called 'JIMBF' songs.
For example, comments have been made over the focus on the individual...but many classic hymns also have singular pronouns!(eg And Can it Be, Be Thou My Vision, When I Survey etc.)

Again, if a song doesn't have an explicit address, I am sure the context in which the song is sung will make clear to whom it is about/addressed.

Another common criticism seems to be that the're light on theology, high on personal expressions of emotion. Obviously the two aren't mutually exclusive, but I think it is both glorifying to God and helpful for our 'religious affections' to sing songs that call us to express our love for God in a personal and intimate way. In fact, perhaps, the lack of such somgs, and the attitudes that lie behind them, has contributed to the 'spiritual dryness' often reported in our churches.

Singing is not just about teaching (I am not suggesting anyone here is saying this!). It is about giving God the devotion he deserves and stirring each other to love and good deeds. Many so called 'JIMBF' songs may help some people in our churches do that. Perhaps some of the 'evangelical alternatives' in the past have failed here.

If JIMBF songs were all we sung, there may be a problem - but in a varied and thought through songslist, these songs may well play a vital role. We need to evaluate our songlists as a whole, rather than expecting every song to do all things.

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Michael Bull    1 year, 3 months ago
Singing the Psalms rounds out our often one-eyed theology, and also sets a more biblical 'pace' for our own songs. I don't think it's an overstatement to say that if the theology of the Psalms is strange to us, we are off track from a Biblical faith.

Many old hymns are fantastic, but even there, you have some that are just Victorian romanticism with a veneer of sickly pietism. Just about anything with the word 'sweet' (except perhaps Jesus the very thought of thee, which is actually pretty gutsy)

One thing that makes me cringe in modern songs is a misuse of Bible symbols. There is a modern chorus added to 'Amazing Grace' that refers to the end of the world as melting snow, and God's mercy as a flood. Someone doesn't read their Bible.

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Chris Pettett    1 year, 3 months ago
Vaughn Williams had the honour (or the burden) of revising the CofE Hymn Book around the end of the 19th Century. He said: "it was the best musical education I ever received as it contained some of the best examples and some of the worst examples of lyrics and music."

Jonathan: the idea of actually singing the Psalms is awesome. Many of them would have been sung and I'm with you, it's a tradition we've saidly lost.

If I can add, anyone wanting to find out the how of writing a hymn/song study the Psalms.

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Steve Carlisle    1 year, 3 months ago
I went to a punk rock concert a few weeks ago and saw 5,000 other, mainly 20-something males, singing out really really loud. The problem is often not the lyrics, but the style of music. We need to be willing to try and tap into the emo, punk, rock scene for congregational music, which attracts, impacts and stirrs the minds and emotions of many.

Someone might say, you cant do emo music in church....
Is it singable? Yes, 5,000 blokes cant be wrong.
Does it edify? Yes, experiencing it with others on the night was awesome
Does it emotively connect? Yes, I would even think about raising my hands in church for this sort of stuff :P
Does it worship God? I think so, yes, at that level it is about mindset

I reckon we need keen, musically minded people to get us out of the genre trap we have in Christian conventional music circles. This would also help us missionally in our church contexts. At the moment, most of our music is great, but it is mono in regards its genre.....

I have that desire to see this in church, but an sadly musically challenged...

Is this only true of my experience?

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Michael Bull    1 year, 3 months ago
I'd have to disagree on that one. A lot of modern music genres were created as rebellion. That's what they mean and that's how they sound. They are all about the body, not the mind. To say it can be worshipful if that is your mindset is gnosticism. The church has accommodated to the world's whims plenty and all it has done is water down the church. I think we should be heading in exactly the opposite direction.

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Jeremy Halcrow    1 year, 3 months ago
Michael I get you on the 'rebellion' point. But you go too far in labelling Steve 'gnostic'. Indeed to be so anti-body and pro-mind is neo-Platonism not Christianity.

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Steve Carlisle    1 year, 3 months ago
But isnt "contemporary country Christian" (which most churches do to death) just the same accommodation of the culture?

Isnt normal church music a modern phenomenon also, which must be rejected, becasue it was a change based on staying relevant with the world many years ago? In other words, at some stage, someone found Beethoven boring, and rebelled against that with an electric guitar. We have just settled for John Farnham music in church in a contemporary sense. I am not saying we start music which is rebellious in nature, but is cuturally relevant, emotive, and enjoyable to sing.

I would also argue that what was once 'alternative' in pop culture is now so mainstream that most people would not see rock music as a rebellion at all, but simply entertainment....

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Steve Carlisle    1 year, 3 months ago
I guess on the gnostic thing, I am saying that in my view the style of music is morally neutral, see for example the band thrice, particularly Vhiessu, which is brilliant lyrically and musically.

And if it is morally neutral, then it can be used either for idolarty or worship, thats what i mean by mindset....

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Michael Bull    1 year, 3 months ago
Jeremy

I wasn't labelling Steve anything. I do concentrate on ideas not people : )

Perhaps there is an overlap between Plato and gnosis. A church that minimises the physical, whether it be historical facts or bread/wine/oil or music or physical posture is a bit gnostic.

Music is not a simple issue. It takes a lot of wisdom. But it is not morally neutral, or at least not without definite character. You wouldn't play a square dance at your mother's funeral unless you hated her. Horses for courses.

Some of the modern genres are about rebellion, pure (well, uncut) and simple. Music is going to evolve, whatever we do. But church music, whether contemplative or celebrational, needs to be reverent. Recycling defiance and importing it into the sanctuary is what brought Solomon down. It makes us ineffective.

An important thing to note is that western music originated from church music. Now it's the other way around. The church should be starting with Scripture and working out its music from there. There are some church bands in America doing it, and the results are awesome. They are leading the way.

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Ruth Mahaffey    1 year, 3 months ago
I want to say I agree with Alexander's comments. Also that Hosea 2 speaks of a very intimate relationship that God has with his people, he is wooing them. And many of the psalms are so personal and emotional. I want to see good theology in songs, but I think we risk losing what music is all about. why do we sing rather than just recite words of truth. Remember what David was like bringing the ark into Jerusalem. Music is by nature emotional, it is meant to move us. I love songs that have great theological truth and are moving musically and poetically at the same time. If a song helps focus a congregation on God (without sending them into a "trance") and speaks the truth, isn't that a good thing? I think a good mix of songs in a service which are strategically placed to enhance that part of the service should be encouraged.

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Michael Bull    1 year, 3 months ago
I just listened to a very interesting podcast on church music, modern and historic here:
http://www.auburnavenue.org/inmediasres/Podcast_16.mp3

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Arthur Davis    1 year, 3 months ago
I want to point back to one of Jonathon's main ideas -- that however legit it may be to criticise JIMB songs, it might be that we've rushed off in another flawed direction, towards hyper-theologising our music.

Like Jonathon, I wonder if we've been trying to remedy the JIMB problem by putting theological correctness on a pedestal, to the point where our attempts at "good songs" must somehow be theologically exhaustive.

Yet attempts to squeeze (eg) an entire theology of atonement into one song (musical quality aside) are just as likely to end in artistic butchery, theological distortion and a paltry means of worship. In fact, the more theology we try to squeeze into 5 minutes of music, the more inadequate it likely gets.

I've found some recent evangelical songs, apparently devised as theological tours de force, to be every bit as cringe-worthy and off putting as "Jesus is my boyfriend". I'm all for theological robustness in our music, but being theologically exhaustive kills me dead!

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Philip Cooney    1 year, 3 months ago
For Michael and Steve,
The question of musical character also involves context. If your grandmother loved square dancing then it might well be appropriate to play a square dance tune. The notion and tempo, for example, of worshipful depends on denomination and possibly your generation. This term used to mean exuberant and brisk and now equates for many with slow. As to cultural origins, context and culture, I wonder what music would have been used by Moses in Exodus 15. Had Jacob's family established a musical style that survived the time in Egypt, or did the Israelites borrow music from the Egyptians? In the context of praise of Yahweh and lyrics that made the purpose of the song clear, the origins of the song became of secondary importance. But it must have been catchy, because it receives a number of encores.

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Philip Cooney    1 year, 3 months ago
With that in mind, I was comfortable writing a calypso melody for this setting of Psalm 90 which I wrote a few years ago.

Teach us to number our days aright
Measure each step using faith not sight
May we have hearts that in wisdom delight
Teach us to number our days

From everlasting creator and Lord
You have been our dwelling place
Help us remember that we are but dust
Sinners in need of your grace

Our days pass quickly and we fly away
Losing all we thought to gain
Prosper the work of our hands in your name
May we not labour in vain

Fill us each day with the fruits of your love
May we be glad all our days
Singing for joy of the things you have done
Your mighty splendour to praise

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Tim Mitchell    1 year, 3 months ago
Michael- "One thing that makes me cringe in modern songs is a misuse of Bible symbols. There is a modern chorus added to 'Amazing Grace' that refers to the end of the world as melting snow, and God's mercy as a flood. Someone doesn't read their Bible."

Those word are actually from the original lyrics of Amazing Grace, well I assume you're referring to the section ...
"The earth shall soon dissolve like snow,
The sun forbear to shine;
But God, who call’d me here below,
Will be forever mine."

Surely you're not implying that Newton didn't read his Bible!?! Just curious, what problems do you have with those symbols? I don't see anything wrong with them.

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Michael Bull    1 year, 3 months ago
That's interesting. Still makes me cringe. Bible symbolism is incredibly diverse, but also incredibly consistent, as a word search for flood or snow will show.

A flood is the rising of the Abyss in judgment, and after the historical flood, it was used by the prophets to picture Gentile nations flooding in from the 'outer courts' boundary over the four-cornered 'Altar' of Israel to wipe out the unfaithful 'sons of God.' It is used to picture Egypt, Babylon, and even the false teachings of the Judaisers in Revelation 12, but never mercy.

Snow only gets one negative rap, and that is the whiteness of 'leprosy' (actually, plague). In this case, it is the evil twin of true glory. It is death masquerading as life, an un-covering instead of a glorious robe.

"Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for you are like whited sepulchres, which indeed appear beautiful outward, but within are full of dead [men's] bones, and of all uncleanness."

The symbols are important, and we are mostly illiterate concerning them. They are not poetic fluff in any way. God communicates truth by His word to interpret His creation. But we think like Greeks instead of Hebrews.

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Tim Mitchell    1 year, 3 months ago
Thanks, I'd agree that many of us are quite illiterate about many Biblical symbols. (I know I am!) I'll have a go at justifying the symbols in the song in light of the biblical ones, though you may well be right! Tell me what you think, and let me know if I get unbiblical please!

Snow- I could only try and distinguish that while the Bible passage refers to the appearance of snow, the song refers to the process of melting/"dissolving" snow, and so the symbolism is different?

Flood of mercy (which isn't actually in the original, only the snow part is, sorry if my initial post was misleading)
Just as God's judgment and justice is flood-like (overwhelming, uncontrollable, complete) so too is God's love and mercy correspondingly flood-like in bringing us back to him through sending Jesus to take this punishment for us?

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Tim Mitchell    1 year, 3 months ago
I did a word search for snow and for flood as you suggested, and a couple of the references seem perhaps to confirm my explanation of the snow and fit better than my awkward explanation of the flood.

Snow-
Job 24:19
"As heat and drought snatch away the melted snow,
so the grave snatches away those who have sinned."
So the earth dissolving like snow may be linked to this kind of imagery?

Now the flood...

Joshua 3:15 "Now the Jordan is at flood stage all during harvest..."
OK so its not symbolism, but there's a definate association between a flood and needs being provided for, etc

Isiah 66:12
"For thus says the LORD:"Behold, I will extend peace to her (Jerusalem) like a river, and the glory of the nations like an overflowing stream..."
Here the overflowing stream (flood in NIV, and really, what's the difference between that and an overflowing stream) is connected to things that God is promising to provide in abundance.

In several passages (eg Malachi 3:10) it talks obout God promising to "open up the windws of heaven" (sometimes translated as floodgates) and promising to "pour down for you a blessing until there is no more need." The connections between pouring of blessing and flood imagery in relation to mercy are easy to make I think.

Its certainly very interesting!

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Ruth Mahaffey    1 year, 3 months ago
Do congregational songs have to be limited to using the imagery the Bibles uses? Is there room to just be poetic as long as it still conveys the right message?

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Michael Bull    1 year, 3 months ago
I think snow is symbolic of righteousness, hence the whited sepulchre, and perhaps the image in Job.

Re the flood, in the Bible, waters from above speak of resurrection and waters from below of the Abyss. Noah went up and the sinners went down. Rivers are waters from above, like the Laver and the crystal sea. Baptism in Jordan is resurrection. So there is a difference between that and the Gentile sea full of monsters flooding onto the Land.

I don't think it's wrong to use our own images. But God has given us a book full of symbols from His creation and we most often don't 'get' them. They are consistent, meaningful and potent. He's given us a king's feast and we are content to serve the Devon from our uninspired, confused subconscious, in both our music and our prayers. : )

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Tim Mitchell    1 year, 3 months ago
Michael, please write a book on symbolism in the Bible! :) It seems God's given you a lot of wisdom on that topic. (alternatively perhaps you could recommend an existing book on the topic??)

Or perhaps I should just find a copy of this?

http://www.bullartistry.com.au/pdf_lastdays/TOTUSCHRISTUS-Intro+Ch1.pdf

;-)

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Michael Bull    1 year, 3 months ago
Send me your address as a Private Message and I'll send you freebie.

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