2 ways to live
Evangelism is not a formula driven thing. In the final washup it involves telling someone the good news of Christ, which requires saying something like “the Bible says”. Getting to that point will take many different pathways, however, depending upon the nature of the relationship we have the other person and the work of God’s Spirit in their hearts.
I’m not a great believer in sharing my “testimony”. My personal experiences of how I came to believe in Christ and how I perceive Him working in my life are easily dismissed as being great for me, but irrelevant to someone else. There may be times when it is helpful, if someone I have come to know and who is aware of my faith asks me about how I came to believe. Generally, though, I think it is a bit of distraction, telling people more about what I think of myself than what Christ has done and can do for them.
What is far more important is the the way I live my life now, which reveals what Christ really means in my life. If my life is not consistent with the gospel then my testimony may actually bring disgrace to Christ; if my life is consistent with the gospel then this will be a powerful statement. I think it will be far more powerful than sharing with someone a decision I made many years ago. As Jesus said, “by this will all men know you are my disciples, if you have love for one another”. And Peter urged us to be ready to give an explanation of the hope that is within us, the context being a life faithfully lived which in turn leads people to ask the question of us.
I suspect that many Christians underestimate God’s ability to do His own work of saving people. Yes, the body of Christ is charged with the responsiblility of sharing the message, but that process is not merely one of speaking words into a vacuum. It is a process of living authentically and being ready to speak when it is appropriate. I think far too much effort goes into training people in how to talk the talk and not enough emphasis is placed on walking the walk. (Witness the paucity of responses so far to the other discussion topic on living out our faith at work. Maybe people don’t know how to answer that question???)
The point is that the bit of evangelism that many people think is the most important - the telling of the gospel message - will only be effective in people’s lives if God has done the groundwork for their hearts to be ready. I believe that many Christians turn people off by blurting out the spoken words before people are ready to hear. Again it depends upon the nature of the relationship you have with someone. Every now and then someone might get converted through a “cold call”, like the Navigators used to do around university campuses. However, most of the Christians I know came to faith over a long period of time as a result of the friendship of another Christian. Or they came into contact with Christians through something like the baptism of their kids and were impressed with the loving acceptance they were shown, which validated the words they were hearing.
Tracts like Two Ways to Live have their place, though I think you have to be careful how and when you use them. Always remember the principle of doing to others as you would have them do unto you. If having someone read from a little pre-prepared booklet turns you off then you shouldn’t do it with others. Authenticity requires finding a way of sharing the gospel that is a genuine expression of who you are in Christ, not trying to imitate the way that others do it.