Hi Gordon
There seems to be a growing realisation that western Christianity is effeminate (not ‘feminine’). As the church discards the Bible, we end up “ruled by women and children” as a judgment from Christ. A way of removing the lamp from a terminal church is to “cut off her generations,” and an emasculated church is just that. We get women in the roles that the Bible designated for men, or we get effeminate men (of whom Spurgeon said “Throw her down!").
I just read “Why Men Hate Going to Church.” Men will not follow women unless they are threatened with getting fired or a court-martial. We need to encourage and train more men to take up spiritual leadership roles in church (besides the clergy) and also at home.
I’m not advocating the “redneck” WILD AT HEART masculinity that makes men even more selfish and domineering over women. That’s usually where Islam ends up. Christianity should offer a brotherhood that demontrates the sacrificial masculinity of Christ, the ‘authority to serve’ as Tony Payne illustrated in his ‘Fatherhood’ book.
Douglas Wilson has written a lot about this subject. His church has a men only service once a month on Sunday night, where they make leaders and practice singing the Psalms. If we have a problem with this, we have a problem with the Bible. The church becomes Babel, sitting as a queen proclaiming ‘I am no widow,’ and refusing to multiply and fill the earth. Jerusalem, on the other hand, only has eyes for her Husband, and she is always fruitful. Men are to image the bridegroom in our worship services, handling the word, sacraments and church government (James Jordan has a lot about this at www.biblicalhorizons.com).
Women in leadership roles alienates men. Men in leadership, truly sacrificial, courageous, godly leadership, makes for security for the women and children. If we get back to the Bible, we can certainly show Islam, Judaism and even Greek and Roman Christianity what a true brotherhood is, because as it stands, they outdo us.
Imagine a church that is no longer the domain of “women, children and little old ladies of both sexes.” I think God has raised up Islam for the same reasons He raised up the Assyrians and Babylonians! To discipline us, to separate the faithful from the unfaithful, and to provide a large vehicle for Christianity when Nebuchadnezzar converts! Like Zedekiah, we are already losing our sons.
Things are beginning to change and it is encouraging, but we need more role models who are still alive. Adam needs to lead Eve so she no longer has to carry the slack.