Hi Tim
Continuing our discussion on the perpetual virginity of Mary I had a couple of points to make in response to some of your objections. I won’t comment on every point you make but will try and summarize what I believe you are objecting to. In some of my responses I will probably repeat what I have said previously but hope that my ‘second go’ will make it a little clearer.
Point 1: Mary’s First born.
First born does not refer to the eldest of a family. It denotes the opening of the womb.
Point 2: Luke 1:34 “How shall this be since I know not man”.
This is a direct translation from the Greek. If Mary’s intention was to ‘know man’, she would not be surprised. Mary said “How SHALL this be..”. Mary knew how babies were made. Her question was relating to her vow of chastity. Mary was already betrothed to Joseph at this stage, so if she intended to have marital relations, then she would not have responded with such surprise.
Point 3: Mary at the foot of the Cross:
As I already stated, Jesus would not have entrusted Mary to John and vice versa if Mary had other children. You disagree by suggesting that perhaps Jesus’ brothers were not followers yet. Jesus knew all men, so to suggest that he did not know that those brothers would be followers, is a little suspect. Would Mary abandon her other children? No decent mother would do that. And what about John’s mother. Don’t you think she would be a little upset if John abandoned her to look after Mary.
Point 4: Mary, spouse of the Holy Spirit:
The language the angel uses when he says that Mary would be overshadowed is marital language. We see similar language in Ruth 3:9. Joseph knew that Mary conceived by the power of the Holy Spirit and he knew that he could not have relations with her. The angel does not use the phrase for marital union “go in unto” (Gen. 30:3-4, 16), the phrase used is ‘paralambano gunaika’ which means leading her into the house as a wife but not co-habitating with her.
We see in 2 Sam 16:21-22; 20:3 that David took charge of the women but did not go in unto them. They remained widows until the day of their deaths. Here it is clear that once someone has defiled someone, even the husband is not allowed to enter. I am not saying that Mary was defiled by the Holy Spirit. I am pointing out that Joseph understood the law and so obeyed it completely.
Point 5: Brothers of Jesus
For a good analysis of who the ‘brothers of Jesus’ are go to newadvent.org. They have an article “Bretheren of the Lord”. The Church fathers are unanimous (except Tertullian who later became an heretic) that Jesus was an only child. In Eusebius - Book 2 Chap 2-5 - he has an explanation of who James is in Gal 1:19. He states that Clopas was Joseph’s brother and that Simeon was the Son of Clopas.
In John 6:42 - this verse points that the Jews thought Joseph was Jesus’ father as well. The Jews were denying the divinity of Christ. So we can hardly use this as evidence that Jesus had uterine brothers.
More to follow
Regards
Donna