David A.,
Are you misapplying the reference?
No. I don’t believe so.
Matthew 7:1 “Judge not, that you be not judged.”
John Gill on this verse:
This is not to be understood of any sort of judgment ... but of rash judgment, interpreting men’s words and deeds to the worst sense, and censuring them in a very severe manner.... Good is the advice given by the famous Hillell, who lived a little before Christ’s time;
“Do not judge thy neighbour, (says he,) until thou comest into his place.”
It would be well, if persons subject to a censorious spirit, would put themselves in the case and circumstances the persons are in they judge; and then consider, what judgment they would choose others should pass on them. The argument Christ uses to dissuade from this evil ... is, “that ye be not judged”; meaning, either by men, for such censorious persons rarely have the good will of their fellow creatures, but are commonly repaid in the same way; or else by God, which will be the most awful and tremendous: for such persons take upon them the place of God, usurp his prerogative, as if they knew the hearts and states of men; and therefore will have judgment without mercy at the hands of God.
Matthew Henry on this verse:
We must judge ourselves, and judge our own acts, but we must not judge our brother, not magisterially assume such an authority over others, as we allow not them over us… We must not sit in the judgment-seat, to make our word a law to everybody. We must not judge our brother, that is, we must not speak evil of him, so it is explained, #Jas 4:11. We must not despise him, nor set him at nought, #Ro 14:10. We must not judge rashly, nor pass such a judgment upon our brother as has no ground, but is only the product of our own jealousy and ill nature. We must not make the worst of people, nor infer such invidious things from their words and actions as they will not bear. We must not judge uncharitably, unmercifully, nor with a spirit of revenge, and a desire to do mischief. We must not judge of a man’s state by a single act, nor of what he is in himself by what he is to us, because in our own cause we are apt to be partial. We must not judge the hearts of others, nor their intentions, for it is God’s prerogative to try the heart, and we must not step into his throne; nor must we judge of their eternal state, nor call them hypocrites, reprobates, and castaways; that is stretching beyond our line; what have we to do, thus to judge another man’s servant?
John 7:24 “Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment.”